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📖 10 Ways To Become A Better Man For The Woman You Love
Excerpted and adapted from Laws Of The Bedroom: What Women Want From Men Inside & Outside Of The Bedroom book by Bart Smith. Reprinted by Permission.
Gentlemen, here is something worth thinking about: if you want to attract a wonderful woman, keep her hooked, and build a loving relationship that lasts, why not become an even better version of the man you already are?
I am not suggesting you change everything about yourself or pretend to be someone you're not. On the contrary, I want you to be the real you—only better.
The truth is, a high-value woman isn’t looking for a perfect man, but she is looking for a man who refuses to stagnate. When you commit to leveling up your own life, you don't just become more attractive to her; you build a foundation of self-respect that changes how you carry yourself in every single room you walk into.
In Chapter Two of my book, Laws Of The Bedroom, I cover dozens of practical ways men can improve themselves personally, romantically, emotionally, and physically for the benefit of the women they love.
Here are ten areas worth working on, whether you are single, dating, engaged, or happily married:
START WITH THE MAN IN THE MIRROR!
1. Get To Know Yourself First. Before you can fully appreciate another person, it helps to understand who you are, what you value, where you're going in life, and what you want from a relationship. Examine your strengths and weaknesses honestly. Determine what makes you happy, what drives you crazy, and what you need to improve. A man who understands himself is better prepared to understand the woman who shares his life.
2. Cultivate A Loving, Confident Attitude. Your attitude influences practically everything you say and do. If you're constantly angry, impatient, insecure, or negative, those feelings can affect the person you're with. Work on becoming calmer, more optimistic, more confident, and more pleasant to be around. Remember, a woman should enjoy being in your company, not feel exhausted every time you walk into the room! Check out my book, Lethal Confidence, if you want to learn how to enhance your confidence to levels you've never experienced before.
3. Take Better Care Of Your Appearance & Your Health. You don't have to look like a Greek god, but there's no excuse for neglecting your personal hygiene, grooming, clothing, or overall well-being. Eat better, exercise, improve your energy, and take pride in how you present yourself. You don't need expensive clothes to look attractive. Good grooming, a clean appearance, and a little personal style can work wonders.
BECOME THE MAN SHE ENJOYS BEING AROUND!
4. Develop Your Own Sense Of Humor. Don't underestimate the power of making someone laugh. A little humor can brighten an otherwise difficult day and make everyday experiences more enjoyable. Develop your own style. Be playful, spontaneous, and willing to laugh at yourself occasionally. You don't need to become a stand-up comedian. Just learn to lighten up and enjoy life with her.
5. Become More Attentive. When you're with your woman, BE WITH HER! Put away the phone, stop thinking about work, and pay attention to the person sitting right in front of you. Listen when she speaks. Ask about her day. Remember the things she tells you. It's difficult to create a meaningful connection with someone when you're constantly distracted by everybody and everything else.
6. Support Her Dreams & Your Accomplishments. Get interested in her life. Learn about her work, hobbies, goals, interests, and personal ambitions. Encourage her when she's working toward something important. Celebrate her achievements, and be there when things don't go according to plan. Your relationship should provide a place where both of you can grow, improve, and encourage each other.
LET YOUR CHARACTER DO THE TALKING!
7. Keep Your Promises & Be Dependable. If you tell her you're going to do something, DO IT! Making promises you don't keep can gradually damage trust. Be honest about what you can deliver, follow through on your commitments, and admit your mistakes when you're wrong. Your actions should demonstrate that your word means something.
8. Improve The Way You Communicate. Learn to express yourself calmly, clearly, and thoughtfully. Don't turn every disagreement into a contest to determine who's right. When she has something important to say, listen carefully before responding. I often remind readers that the objective isn't simply to BE RIGHT. The objective is to find what's right for the TWO OF YOU!
KEEP GROWING TOGETHER!
9. Become More Romantic & Thoughtful. You don't have to wait until Valentine's Day, her birthday, or your anniversary to demonstrate affection. Surprise her occasionally. Leave a thoughtful note. Plan an enjoyable evening. Hold her hand. Tell her you love her, and show her through your behavior that you mean it. And don't abandon those romantic gestures simply because you've been together for several years!
10. Never Stop Improving Yourself. Personal growth shouldn't end when you find a girlfriend or get married. Continue learning, improving your health, building your character, pursuing meaningful goals, and discovering new ways to make your relationship enjoyable. Encourage her to do the same. A wonderful relationship allows two individuals to become better people while enjoying the journey together.
FINAL WORD
Becoming a better man isn't about following a script or trying to impress every woman you meet. It's about developing the raw qualities that make you a more confident, dependable, thoughtful, and capable partner.
You don't have to master all ten of these improvements overnight. Pick a few that deserve your immediate attention, start working on them, and just keep pushing yourself to improve. Become the kind of man you’d be proud to have your daughter date or your sister marry.
And if you're already with a wonderful woman? Get to work and give her even more reasons to be glad she chose you.
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WANT TO LEARN MORE?
This article is adapted from Chapter Six of Laws Of The Bedroom: What Women Want From Men Inside & Outside Of The Bedroom, where I share practical advice to help men become more thoughtful, attentive, confident, and considerate lovers.
Throughout the book, I discuss communication, intimacy, affection, romance, and understanding what makes your woman feel genuinely loved, wanted, and appreciated. You'll discover ways to improve yourself emotionally and physically, create memorable romantic experiences, strengthen your relationship, and give your honey the attention she deserves and craves deep down inside.
Gentlemen, being a great lover involves more than what happens between the sheets! It's how you treat your girlfriend or wife, how you communicate, and how you continue making her feel special throughout your relationship. Want to become an even better man for the woman you love? Explore my book and discover more ways to bring love, romance, excitement, and fulfillment into your relationship!
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